In my former life, I was a make-up queen. I was also very insecure and constantly worried about how I “should” look. Thinking back, this mind set was a waste of time, energy and money. Don’t get me wrong, I like looking good. But looking presentable doesn’t have to cost a lot of cash or damage one’s self-esteem.
Below are 3 strategies that helped me take my make-up off for good.
1. Buy less and love yourself.
Advertising promotes the idea that women “need” make-up, and anti-aging creams, to fit into a “conventional image”. Don’t believe this message. Instead, start buying and using less make-up.
At one time, I thought I needed make-up to look good. I finally realized I was slowly killing myself with negative thoughts. Living a simpler lifestyle has taught me to consider the impact of my choices. Rather than spending $50 (or more) every month on make-up, I’m putting that money in my savings account. It took me years to realize I don’t need to “look” a certain way. I’m finally comfortable in my own skin.
2. Be aware of chemical additives in your products.
If you wear make-up be aware of the chemicals and additives in your products. Do some background research and question the products you apply to your body. Some questions to consider asking yourself include: Has your product been assessed for safety? Does your make-up contain carcinogens? Is your body absorbing make-up through the skin? The Good Guide posted an informative article on this topic:
Check the ingredient list for most makeup, from blush to lip plumper, and you’ll find “fragrance”, a trade-secret blend of chemical ingredients that often conceals strong toxins like phthalates and is often associated with allergies and immune system toxicity. You’ll also sometimes find the immune and organ system toxin, wildlife toxin, and possible carcinogen BHA, a masking agent found in lipstick, lip gloss, eye shadows and eyeliners. (BHA is banned for cosmetics use in the European Union due to health concerns.)
Foundations, concealers, mascara and other eye makeup often contain micronized titanium dioxide, a colorant, sunscreen agent, and possible carcinogen that opens up your skin to allow other chemicals to get in better and, because of its small size, is an inhalation risk.
3. Use a tiny make-up bag.
I use a very small personal care bag. Before I discovered small living, I carried around a small suit case that contained my make-up and hair products. Yikes! By purchasing a small personal care bag, I slowly limited the amount of personal care products I bough and carried with me on trips and to the gym.
A few thoughts…
These strategies worked really well for me. But in the end you have to decide what makes you happy and brings balance to your life. Wearing make-up isn’t a bad thing. If it adds joy to your life, apply away, but don’t buy additional products because you feel like you should “look” a certain way or have to conform to societal pressures.







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I agree with you, and I have recently done the same thing. Leaving a job in corporate America helped, too! However, I found that spending money buying clean, safe, natural makeup products that I *DO* still use works for me, so that when I do wear more makeup, I am not damaging my skin as much as I used to do. You made the most important point, though, be comfortable in your own skin!
I really like this article!! Huge fan of no make-up my whole life. I decided if I cant make it in my own kitchen with simple ingredients for pennies then I don’t need it. Same goes for most hair products, except I have a weakness for shampoo and conditioner (hard habit to break!!) but I promised myself when I run out of the huge overstock I have then I am going to go chemical free and as cheap as I can (I am betting my worst fears that it will look bad will actually turn out to just fear after all and I will be happier in the long run
I’m happy I don’t have the need for makeup. I think sometimes girls look even better without it, or that they spend a lot of time, money and effort on it. Still to each their own. I guess the most valuable lesson is to learn how to love yourself. Make up won’t help it will just be an extra thing that can do good or bat to your own self-stem.
Glad to hear your thoughts on this one, even when I’m not a real part of the debate. =)
hi! This was totally me many ears ago – when I was in college I couldn’t even leave my bedroom to go to any communal areas in the residence without putting on a full face of makeup first…I could always hear my mother in the back of my head saying “oh my God, you can’t go out looking like that (meaning makeup-free)”. I don’t think she even realized the message that we both internalized for years. As I got older, I realized “hey, this is what I look like and I’m completely OK with that”. I’m down to mascara and lipbalm/lipstick. I don’t worry about making the mailman scream-other than my hair sticking up a bit more than usual he’s just seeing what I usually look like! I’m not against enhancing what you have, but for me it seemed it was more about hiding who you were (grew up in a very disfunctional family that was all about hiding its secrets, and having to always wear makeup made me feel like I had to always hide who I was. To me, going without made me feel more honest/comfortable. My cousin feels the same way, though she was shamed for being vain/superficial for even wanting to wear makeup as a teen, but as an adult feels more comfortable/honest celebrating her beauty with some gorgeous cosmetics.) LOL – who thought that a minimalist approach could be found just by dropping the mental baggage attached to such small, pretty containers!
Thanks for this. I’m in the process of simplifying in preparation to moving to a smaller space. I’m trying out Everett Bogue’s idea of living with 100 things, and I am having trouble deciding what to do with my makeup. The bit about the chemical additives just made it much easier to let go of my conventional drugstore makeup.
Wow, i was always way to lazy to use make up, and the few times i did try it i didn’t like it and it ended up being this huge hassle that was never worth it.
As a teenager I relied on makeup to make me beautiful and even won several beauty pageants. I think this made it even more difficult to give up because after all, who would I be without my mask? My low self image hid behind it. Through the years I’ve learned that my own opinion of myself is more important than what others might think of me. I’ve learned to love myself- warts and all! Today, I’m 51 and feel more beautiful than I ever did as a young woman. I seldom wear makeup because I don’t need it. Ditto for the shampoo and hair care stuff. About a year ago I decided to jump on the no (sham)poo bandwagon. Occasionally, I’ll use vinegar and/or baking soda but usually wash using plain water. After a couple of weeks, my hair’s pH balanced out. Now it’s in the best condition it’s ever been in my entire life. Ditch the chemicals, people!
I actually love the no-makeup look on other people, but I just wouldn’t feel comfortable walking around without it. I have a lot of redness on my cheeks and people always comment on it when I am not wearing makeup. The only good thing is that I will never need blush
I basically stick with my Colorescience all-in-one refillable powder that serves as my spf (I’m very pale, except in my cheeks) my foundation, and blemish cover-up, and my Lancome definicils mascara. I know I need to switch to a more natural brand of mascara, but I haven’t had good luck finding anything that looks as good, or stays on as well. Does anyone have any recommendations?
Thanks for the inspiration!
Basically, I still feel that I am a minimalist with my products, but if the redness ever goes away I will have to try the bare skin thing again
Wish I could go completely without! I do when home, but use eyeliner & mascara at work to give my blonde eyelashes some color. On special occasions I use something to conceal my rosacea. I really hate having a red face in photos.
Skin Deep is another good website that provides cosmetic safety information.
Hey Tammy! I love the post! I’ve said for a long time that makeup only promotes self loathing. So I wear the least amount I can possibly get away with: mascara and MAYBE some eyeshadow. Plus I’m lazy.
It’s nice to see that there are other ladies out there who are putting the warpaint down and learning to love themselves and their flaws.
Thanks to all for leaving comments! It’s nice to know other ladies have given up make-up or wear it sparingly. At least I’m not alone.
Thanks so much for reading the blog!
thank you SO much, Tammy–this is great–I’ve been on camera much more in the last year and have had all manner of “it’s time to wear makeup” advice–and lots of comments on my age! yikes. I have become committed to sunscreen, and am moving into understanding that HD video does require some tools of the trade (hoping for some basic advice on that, if you have it). Do you have a healthy sunscreen advisory up somewhere? Thanks so much for helping me Think Simple.
Hey Dyana – thanks for leaving a comment. It’s exciting that you’re had camera time. Very cool! Unfortunately, I don’t know much about HD video and make-up tricks. ):
Sunscreen is really important. Although the good stuff is hard to find. I highly recommend checking out the Good Guide and their product recommendations.
I’m glad I can help.
And thank you for reading!
Tammy, Your mind and mine think a lot alike. I have a post coming up on this very topic! When I worked in the corporate world, I felt I needed to wear a lot of makeup, but I started ditching it by ditching the eye makeup first (which began irritating my eyes). However, now that I’m in my mind 40s, I have rosacia (SP?) and feel more comfortable with it again. I use minimal, though, Bare Essentuals, it is natural, looks natural and also helps my blemishes.
Great post and thanks for writing it! I have always worn very little makeup-mostly just mascara and I have really good skin for my age (44). About 6 months ago I was suckered into purchasing a pallette of Chanel eyeshadow that cost a small fortune and took a lot of time every day to apply. I did get a lot of compliments at how good my eyes looked-but the cost and time did not make it worth it.
I am back to mascara, lipgloss and blush. I save the Chanel if I have a date!
Nice! I love Chanel products. I’ve never purchased any because of the cost. But they are always fun to look at.
Speaking of Chanel – have you read: The Gospel According to Coco Chanel? It’s really good.
Great post! And, I’m so happy to read the comments others are leaving!
I hate wearing makeup, but I recently have begun wearing more (I’ve added eyeshadow to my mineral foundation and mascara) because I noticed that the women in my office who wear makeup are treated better, all other things being equal.
For those of you who have commented about skin conditions like rosacea, you may want to take the time to do some serious investigation into your diet by getting food sensitivity tests (not food allergy tests, those are different). Lots of things can be triggers; animal products, wheat, caffeine, soy, sugar, etc. I found out that I’m sensitive to wheat, chili peppers, peanuts, and a few other things. Turns out, wheat (and spelt) is the big trigger for acne for me. I never would have guessed as it has no other effect on me (I don’t have celiac’s). My skin is finally starting to clear after 20+ years of acne, all due to wheat! (I already use super pure, and minimal, skin care products, absolutely no chemicals.)
You can investigate skin/body care products at Skin Deep. Great resource on exactly what is in your products. http://www.cosmeticsdatabase.com/index.php
I am doing something similar — wearing as little as possible but mostly focusing on making sure an SPF is on my face as the main part.. the rest is just to keep the shine off and stop people from asking me if I am sleepy
I used to have very bad acne when I first started on the pill, and now it’s practically cleared up for good by eating better food, taking supplements and learning what NOT to put on my face
I hit rowdykittens again after I read Everett Bogue’s newest post and he recommended you as a female minimalist. I just started using makeup and quite frankly I think it does matter in the corporate world. If I didn’t have to be a business professional, I would be less worried about going bareskinned. Alas…
@Marie Just get a regular lash and brow dye to cut those from your workday regimen; that way, you never have to worry about it.
@Mneiae – I think doing what’s right for your personal situation is always best. I do agree to some extent about make-up and corporate America. When I worked for a large investment firm, I felt a lot of extra pressure to wear the “right” clothes and make sure I always had my “face-on.” ):
Woman have to deal with a lot of extra pressure to look a certain way in our culture. Jean Kilbourne has written some amazing books and articles on this topic. If you have a chance, check out her stuff.
Thanks for stopping by and checking out the blog. I really appreciate it!